10. What makes you happy?
Knowing what makes your partner happy is one of the most important things in a relationship and isn’t it better to just ask them right away about the things that bring them happiness rather than trying to find something yourself? It will also help you see what type of things is your partner happy about, whether they are materialistic things or just simple moments spent with their loved ones and all this will help you learn a great deal about them.
11. What was your longest relationship and why did it end?
This will help you see whether your partner is capable of commitment and what they consider as dealbreakers. You will get to learn how your partner handled the separation and if they have any real relationship experience or not. You might also understand what mistakes were made on their part and if they recognize these mistakes.
12. Are you religious?
While how often someone prays and how they do it can be a little bit more personal, simply asking them if they are religious or spiritual is quite easy and understandable. You should definitely ask this question if you consider yourself religious or if you think you will not be able to adjust to their religious beliefs.
13. What scares you the most?
Knowing what makes your partner vulnerable and if they have a vulnerable side and what brings it out is a good idea. It will help you get to know them better and you will also get to know if they are willing to open up to you enough to discuss their vulnerabilities with you. Also, once you know what scares your partner maybe you can help and support them through it.
14. What do you think about therapy and have you ever been to it?
This question is important if you go to therapy yourself and it will also let you know if your partner takes care of their mental health. Everyone has issues and sometimes people require professional help to overcome these issues, a person should always be willing enough to seek help so that they can become better for themselves as well as for the people around them.
15. what are you passionate about?
Everyone has something they are passionate about, maybe it is their career or a hobby. The answer might even surprise you as everyone has really unique and special passions, desires, and interests. Asking this question is a must as it will help you know whether your partner is even passionate about something or not.
16. What is your ideal date?
This is a question that will be both fun and interesting to know. Everyone has their own idea of an ideal date and it may be something grand or just a simple night out. You can compare if your idea of a perfect date and their idea of a perfect date look similar or are poles apart. It will also give you ideas about planning your next date or help you plan a surprise for them on any special occasion that may come.
17. What is the one city you have always dreamt about traveling to?
Hearing the dreams of your partner can be really interesting and knowing if they love to travel is important too, especially if you love to travel. You will get to know why your partner loves this city and if they have been to it before. It will also bring insight into which type of places they like to travel to, whether it is the countryside or big cities, snowfalls or rain forests, mountains or islands, or anything else. You can even pick a place to go to together to start traveling together.
18. What is your love language?
We all perceive and display affection based on our love language and knowing what your partner’s love language is will help you love them in a better way. It will give you clarity about a lot of things and you will know what to expect from them. Knowing their love language and sharing yours with them will confirm that the both of you understand each other better as well as receive each other’s affectionate sides better.
19. How do you define cheating?
This might come as a shock to you but not everyone has the same definition of cheating. Some people might consider flirting with someone on chat as something that is not cheating but others might consider it a high level of cheating. It is better you discuss this with your partner beforehand so there are no heartbreaks in the future for either of you.
20. what is the one secret you have never told anyone?
No better way to develop a better and deeper understanding with your new lover than ask them to share a secret with you that they have never told anyone before. However, make sure you are supportive of whatever they tell you and do not make fun of them or make them feel stupid for opening their heart out to you.
21. Do you believe we make each other better people?
Even though your relationship might be new, it is essential that you are with a person who brings out the best in you and inspires you to become a better person. The person you are in a relationship with must be someone who drives you to do better every day. Discussing this with your partner will help you evaluate your future in this relationship and if you see it growing.
These are some of the best questions to ask your partner if you want to get to know them better as well as strengthen your bond with them. All of these questions are guaranteed to bring you closer to your partner, make you feel more connected to them, and eventually make you likely to withstand all the tough and difficult times that life might throw at you together like one.